The Grammar of Us
Why do we keep having the same arguments? Why do we feel truly seen by some people and misunderstood by others? "The Grammar of Us" is a podcast that decodes the hidden language of human connection. We go beyond the surface of relationships to explore the underlying behavioral patterns—the unspoken rules, the recurring cycles, and the subtle communications that define how we treat each other.
Each week, we break down the syntax of love, conflict, and everything in between. Whether it's with a partner, a family member, a friend, or a colleague, we'll provide you with the tools to identify your own relational patterns, break negative cycles, and build more conscious, compassionate, and resilient connections. Tune in to rewrite your relational grammar and build a more fulfilling "us."
We invite you to tune in, engage, and connect with a community that celebrates the beautiful complexity of being human. Let’s embark on this journey together!
The Grammar of Us
The Red Flags I Chose to Ignore: A Hard-Won Relationship Wisdom
Sometimes the clearest signs are the ones we look past. In this weeks hard-won lesson, we are getting honest about the grammar of red flags - those glaring punctuation marks in a relationship story that we often edit out.
This episode is a deep dive into the three major red flags I consciously ignored and the painful wisdom that followed. We will unpack how to spot these warnings, and more importantly why we convince ourselves to stay. We're talking about the crucial moments when your boundaries are compromised, when disrespect and a lack of appreciation become the norm, and when emotional maturity is conspicuously absent.
It's a conversation about turning hindsight into a new set of principles. Join me as we learn how to stop overlooking the bold, italicised and underlined warnings, and start writing a healthier story for ourselves.
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